Princess Principle #2

Common Sense

[Reference: Wikipedia]

Definition: (or, when used attributively as an adjective, commonsense, common-sense, or commonsensical), based on a strict construction of the term, consists of what people in common would agree on: that which they "sense" (in common) as their common natural understanding.

Some people (such as the authors of Merriam-Webster Online) use the phrase to refer to beliefs or propositions that — in their opinion — most people would consider prudent and of sound judgment, without reliance on esoteric knowledge or study or research, but based upon what they see as knowledge held by people "in common".

Thus "common sense" (in this view) equates to the knowledge and experience which most people allegedly have, or which the person using the term believes that they do or should have.

According to Aristotle and Ibn Sina (Avicenna), common sense provides the place in which the senses come together, and which processes sense-data and makes the results available to consciousness.

If we actively review the definitions provided by Merriam-Webster, Wikipedia and other research guides, we can and should come to the conclusion that “common-sense” is not an innate character, but rather it is learned. Further, it is learned by association; in every day terms that would be "the company that you keep".

This should be very encouraging to those of us who -- shall we say -- need help in acquiring common sense. And -- what better way to develop our common sense then to study the Word of our Master and King and to commune with like-minded sisters. For surely the scriptures provide us with the best set of common sense practices and knowledge available to mankind, or rather – PRINCESS-kind.

Be Well,
*Mrs. Renata*

You Don't Have To FIT IN!

(Excerpted From: Sheri Rose Shepherd’s, His Princess – Love Letters from Your King)

I know you want to be accepted by others,
But you were not made to fit in.

You, My Princess, were created to stand out.
Not to draw attention to yourself,
But -- to live the kind of life that leas others to Me.

Remember, it’s your choices that
Will pave your path to life.

I will not force you to do anything.
I have given you a free will to walk with Me,
Or to walk away from Me.

I want you to know that you can put on your crown
Any time and let people know that you belong to Me.

You have a royal call on your life.

I want you to remember you wear the crown
Of everlasting life, and through you I will
Do abundantly more than you would ever
Dare to dream.

Am I now trying to win the approval of men,
or of God? Or am I trying to please men?
If I were still trying to please mean,
I would not be a servant of Christ.
[Galatians 1:10]

YOU Are My Precious Daughter!

You are a daughter of the King, and not just any king.
You are My daughter,
and I am the God of all heaven and earth.
I’m delighted with you!
You are the apple of My eye!
You’re Daddy’s girl!
You will know that – although I am God –
My arms are NOT too big to hold you,
My beloved daughter!

(Excerpted from His Princess: Letters from Your King by: Sheri Rose Shepherd)

"And I will be Your Father, and YOU will be my sons and DAUGHTERS, says the Lord Almighty." [2Corinthians 6:18]

Saturday's Mentoring Session Cancelled

Princesses -- please take note that given the activities and festivities taking place on this coming Saturday in celebration of our Pastor's Birthday and Pastorial Anniversary -- I must regrettably cancel our session, but we will reconvene at our regular schedule beginning ~ Saturday: 4/11/09 at 2:30 PM.

Wear clothes you won't mind getting a little dirty because we are going to decorate our lobby board and I've got lots of glue, paint, glitter and sparkle to help us Turn This Board OUT!

This is the first thing folks will see when they enter our downstairs meeting space --so it has to speak to all that we are and all that we are trying to be!

So are you ready?

Think Princess and Think Creatively...

See you at the Bowling Alley...!!!

My Princess...My Chosen ONE!

Excerpted From:
His Princess: Love Letters from Your King
By: Sheri Rose Shepherd

I chose you before the foundation of the earth to be My Princess. You are royalty even when you don’t feel like a princess. I will wait for you until you are ready to start living the amazing plans I have for you. I know you don’t know where to begin or how to become what I’ve called you to be, so let Me teach you day by day.

Start by recognizing who I am: King of kings and Lord of lords; the lover of your soul. When the two of us meet alone together every day, I will show you how to let go of the things in your life that are holding your back from the blessings I want to give your.

Remember, My child, just as I have chosen you, I have given you a choice to represent Me to the world. If you are willing, I am here to give you all you need to complete your calling.

Love,
Your King and Lord

“You didn’t choose me, I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name.” (John 15:16)

A Heart Song From A Princess

As We Grow
by Jasmin Carey

We’re not perfect and this we know,
But we wanted a group that would help us grow.

Yes we’ve all done wrong and indeed this is true,
So with this group we can look back to see how much we grew.

We want to show our change to everyone around,
To prove that we are able to wear the crown.

Helping each other to become better in every way…
So we can show pride and dignity each and every day.

We’re blessed for this opportunity and knowing how much people care,
Knowing that when we need help if nobody else is able – God will always be there.

We’re now princesses but queens we want to be,
and “we believe we can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

Super FANTASTIC MEETING!!!

Hello -- Ladies;

Just wanted to jot you all a quick note and let you know that I had an awesome time this afternoon going over the devotional exercise as well as the open discussion. I look forward to many more opportunity to teach and learn from you all!

You girls are TRULY wonderful and my heart is so full of joy to be in your presence and to have the honor of being a part of your world.

I look forward to doing and achieving great things with EACH and Every ONE of YOU!

Be Well,
Renata

Thought for Today!

Don't Go to GOD for a Miracle...Go for a RELATIONSHIP so that you can walk in his MIRACULOUS PROVISIONS every day! (The Word for Today, pg 11)

"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty" (Ps 91:1)

Preliminary List of Activities

Good Afternoon Princesses;

Here’s A List of Things Planned for this Saturday:

1. Complete Devotional #1 Activities in our reading material

2. Redesign the bulletin board on the downstairs' lobby wall

3. Take Photos for the Bulletin Board
(Ladies please wear a NICE Blouse and have the Hairdo “tight” for your photo)

4. Plan our next meeting's activities

I look forward to a fun-filled day with you all!

Until then – Be well,
*Mrs. Renata*

Poetic Prose For The Princess

A sister is one who knows you as you REALLY are, understands where you've been, accepts who you've become, and still gently invites you to grow. (Author Unknown)

Everyone needs reminders that the fact of their being on this earth is important and that each life changes everything. (Marge Kennedy)

God's heart is the most sensitive and tender of all. No act goes unnoticed, no matter how insignificant or small. (Richard J. Foster)

Wisdom is knowing what to do next, skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it. (David Starr Jordan)

Talk to Wisdom as a sister. Treat insight as your companion. (Proverbs 7:4)

Weekend Readiness...Check 1...

Well Ladies it is the weekend and as we all know having time on our hand without a productive plan – can be – shall we say disastrous!

So – what do you do to stay productive on the weekend? How do you ensure you channel your energy and talents in a direction that would exemplify and uphold your Christian beliefs?

Ok…let's pretend YOU are the Mentor. Your your mission is to give young ladies advice on spending time wisely and in a manner that would be pleasing to God.

Share with your Princess Peers how you manage your time when you are out of school or find yourself having "free" time. Send me your comments and I’ll post them all together once I get a good number of advice columnist’s pointers.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Today's Princess Principle

Self-Respect

Definition: Proper regard for one's self and one's worth as a Person.

***Acknowledging the dignity of another.
***Valuing Humanity.
***Acknowledgement of a person's high stature.
***Showing approval of another’s action or being.
***Acknowledging the existence, significance, and humanity of another.
***Expressing your true values and authentic self.
***Recognizing your commonality and connection to another.

Respect is action. We demonstrate our respect for others by giving them authentic positive attention, listening with positive attention, acknowledging them as fellow human beings, and providing appropriate recognition.

You respect others when you recognize and sincerely acknowledge their humanity, worth, and significance. Each of us deserves respect simply because of our humanity.

Although genuinely respecting yourself is sometimes more difficult than respecting others, we all deserve to respect ourselves. We each deserve to acknowledge our own dignity.

Recognizing our own intrinsic worth frees us from the expectations and judgments of others. It is a source of deep inner peace, strength, and autonomy.

Self-respect begins at birth and is sustained and increased by living an authentic and honorable life.

Citation: This information was pulled from http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/respect.htm

The Power of A Princess | Devotional #1

Ladies -- The 1st Young Lady that can tell me what GGMFF means WINS a Prize!

Here's a Hint: It's what YOU Are To Me!